It is never too late to be who you desire to be! Start right now, take a few moments to think about who you want to be. How do you want to feel? How do you want to feel about yourself? How do you want to feel about your partner? How do you want to feel about your children? How do you want to feel about your job? How would you like to treat yourself? How would you like to treat your partner? Continue asking yourself questions like this and enjoy focusing on how you want to feel and how you want to act.
Practice seeing yourself feeling and acting in these pleasing ways. With a little time and practice your new focus will be visible in your reality as well. You will find yourself feeling and acting as you have been in your fantasy, and it will feel natural to you.